If we claim we have not sinned, we are calling God a liar and showing that his word has no place in our hearts. 1 John 1:10
When Sara Blakely was growing up, her father would often ask her the same question at dinnertime. “What have you failed at this week?”[1]
Blakely’s failures would teach her the lessons and give her the courage to eventually become the youngest self-made female billionaire in America of her time.
If you aren’t making any mistakes, you aren’t innovating. And if you’re making the same mistakes, you aren’t learning. Making mistakes isn’t only inevitable- it’s an essential part of growth. It’s how we learn!
Here are some steps for growing beyond today’s mistakes. First, name the error. Don’t cover it up or make excuses. We can’t grow if we’re in denial. The Bible says, “If we claim we have not sinned, we are calling God a liar and showing that his word has no place in our hearts” (I John 1:10). Admit where your actions resulted in an outcome you’re not proud of. Research and seek information about how to improve. What will you do differently next time?
Is an apology needed? Is so take ownership and apologize to the people affected, expressing sincere care (Luke 17:3). If you can make amends or repair relationships, do so! Then move forward, ready to execute a new strategy next time, including things that facilitate change into your life.
When we commit to growth, it helps others grow. We make it safe for everyone to be a work in progress, cultivating a healthy mindset toward mistakes. When we don’t know how to handle mistakes, we’re prone to self-pity, denial, and shame. Don’t sit under a cloud of accusation. Move forward courageously in God’s love and forgiveness!
[1] Frank, Robert. “Billionaire Sara Blakely Says Secret to Success Is Failure.” CNBC, CNBC, 16 Oct. 2013, www.cnbc.com/2013/10/16/billionaire-sara-blakely-says-secret-to-success-is-failure.html.
