Do all that you can to live in peace with everyone. Romans 12:18

 

Imagine sitting across from someone whose beliefs are deeply offensive to you. Would you strike up conversation or get up and walk away?

 

An interesting social experiment was featured in a commercial. Two people with opposing political views were asked to work together on a project without knowing each other’s beliefs. As they worked together, they began to connect personally. Later, they were told what the other person believed—each held positions deeply offensive to the other. Then, they were asked if they’d like to sit down and talk over something to drink. Each person chose to stay and chat. Why? Because after knowing the person behind the beliefs, it was easier to be kind and understanding.[1]

The Bible reminds us not to make enemies of those we disagree with. Even when our beliefs clash, we’re called to “Do all that [we] can to live in peace with everyone” (Romans 12:18). Scripture explains that “… we are not fighting against flesh-and-blood enemies, but against evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world” (Ephesians 6:12). Because of this reality, we need to remember that people who are not followers of Jesus are likely to hold values and beliefs that are very contrary to God’s way. We can be fierce in prayer against evil plans, but Jesus calls His followers to be eager to problem-solve and to show mercy to people.

If you follow Jesus, He’s calling you to bear His Spirit in welcoming conversation and relationship with people who don’t agree with you—people that He loves and died for. Even in difficult conversations, we can be conduits of God’s love by asking questions, listening and seeking to understand. As you navigate difficult conversations, hold firmly to your values but be open to learning how others express theirs.

[1]Keh, Andrew. “Heineken Ad Shows How We Can Bridge Political Divides.” The New York Times, 26 Apr. 2017, www.nytimes.com.